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March 31, 2009

Sarah's appendix story, continued

Sarah had her post-op checkup yesterday and everything looks good. She's healing up very well (and quickly!).

Before I forget the details, for those interested, here is "the rest of the story..."

After Sarah got settled into her room, we spent a couple of hours waiting for Lisa, Alex and Helen to arrive at the hospital. Since Sarah hadn't eaten anything since noon the day before (almost 24 hours), she was starving. The nurses gave her some Jell-O, which she nibbled at, and when it seemed to agree with her, wolfed down.

Kids being kids, it didn't take long for Sarah to start feeling restless (even though she was still in a fair amount of pain). When she found out there was a playroom on the hospital's 5th floor, she really wanted to go up for a visit. Her nurse offered to take her so I could grab some coffee, so that's what we did.

Unfortunately, the Jell-O didn't end up agreeing with her quite as well as we thought. Between the pain of all the movement and her gut not being quite ready for solid food, she wasn't in the playroom long before she started feeling sick. By the time I got back from the cafeteria, she was in her room, having gotten sick once up in the playroom. Shortly thereafter, the rest of the Jell-O made it's appearance in the sink next to her bed.

We learned our lesson and started small: water, juice, soup, etc. Around this time, Lisa, Alex, and Helen arrived. We kept Sarah entertained until she got tired. We then headed to the cafeteria for some lunch while Sarah rested. Sarah was getting antsy again by the time we got back from lunch.

The nurses told us that Mickey Mouse, Pluto, and Goofy were scheduled to visit the hospital that day from Disneyland and would be up in the playroom soon. We headed up there (Sarah in a wheelchair, having decided to take it a little slower this time). The kids worked on painting panels for a big Disney mural that the hospital was planning to put up. The, after tiring of that, found other kids to play with.

Eventually, Goofy, and then later Mickey and Pluto showed up. Alex had a blast with Goofy (Sarah wasn't quite so sure about him). However, by the time Mickey and Pluto showed up, Alex had discovered that they had a Nintendo 64 game box, and started playing Mario Kart with another boy, pausing briefly to say hello to the Disney folks.

Sarah, on the other hand, loved Pluto, and spent a lot of time playing with him and chatting with Mickey. I told her that she was pretty lucky: in all the time I've been going to Disneyland, I'd never actually gotten to meet Mickey Mouse, since he's always surrounded by a huge mob.

By early evening, it was time for Lisa, Alex, and Helen to leave and go home for dinner. Alex was very upset about having to leave Sarah at the hospital. It was both heartwarming to see how much he worried about Sarah, and heartbreaking to see how sad he was to leave. Once we said goodbye, Sarah decided she might try a bit of solid food for dinner. We ordered her some easier to eat items (soup, ice cream, etc.) and she did just fine.

After dinner, the nurses told us that there would be a group of volunteers visiting the teen room with dogs and cats, and that younger kids could visit the room while the volunteers and animals were there. Sarah had a blast visiting with the dogs (a golden retriever and a yellow lab), but was most excited about the cat, a Maine Coon cat, by far the biggest domestic cat I think I've ever seen.

We grabbed a couple of suitable DVDs from the teen room (Mary Poppins and Barbie's Nutcracker movie) and headed back to Sarah's room. After watching her DVDs and talking to both sets of grandparents on the phone, Sarah was ready to call it a night. Fortunately, Children's provides an armchair next to each bed that folds out into a flat bed, so I was able to sleep next to Sarah. The night nurse brought me a pillow and a blanket, and we called it a night.

The next morning moved fairly quickly. The surgeon had told us the day before that Sarah would probably be released the next day, so we expected that a doctor would come to check her out and see if she could be discharged. Once that was successfully behind us, we headed to the hospitals school room to meet the teachers and do a bit of work while we waited for Lisa and the other kids to arrive. We met the teachers (good thing: they take a census of each patient and whether they're working on any studies), did some geography and writing work, and then headed back to the room once Sarah tired.

Sarah got a second wind, and we decided to find the playground that the nurses had told her about. Having done so, she gingerly went down the slide a few times (convincing me that she was, in fact, ready to go home). We played for a bit, and then headed back to the room again when she got tired. Lisa and the kids arrived shortly thereafter, and from that time on, it was mostly a matter of packing up and filling out the necessary paperwork to have Sarah discharged.

All, in all, it was about as positive experience as one could imagine given the circumstances. I can't say enough good things about the nurses and doctors at Children's. We've dealt with them a fair number of times now over the years, and our experiences have always been positive.

As I said, three weeks on, Sarah is really doing well. We're starting to discover many other acquaintances with stories about their kid's appendicitis. I can see now why we didn't realize how often it happens: anyone who might have gone only a few weeks without seeing Sarah would never know she'd been through this unless we mentioned it. Kids really do bounce back quickly, thank goodness.

March 23, 2009

Habemus episcopum!

Cordileone.jpg Ever since then-Bishop Vigneron was appointed Archbishop of Detroit, we've been praying for a new bishop, and speculating amongst friends about who the new bishop might be. Among our fellow parishioners, one name clearly stood out. Well, lo and behold...

From today's Vatican Information Service Bulletin:


OTHER PONTIFICAL ACTS

 

VATICAN CITY, 23 MAR 2009 (VIS) - The Holy Father appointed Bishop Salvatore Cordileone, auxiliary of San Diego, U.S.A., as bishop of Oakland (area 3,798, population 2,466,692, Catholics 406,947, priests 433, permanent deacons 112, religious 843), U.S.A.


Here's a news release with more details:


OAKLAND, Calif.--(BUSINESS WIRE)--Pope Benedict XVI has named Bishop Salvatore Joseph Cordileone, 52, as the Fourth Bishop of Oakland. Bishop Cordileone until now has been Auxiliary Bishop of the Diocese of San Diego. His installation as Bishop of Oakland will take place at noon on May 5, 2009 at Oakland's Cathedral of Christ the Light.

On January 5, 2009, Oakland's Bishop Allen Vigneron was appointed Archbishop of Detroit and was installed in that office on January 28. At that time priests in Oakland's College of Consultors elected Fr. Daniel E. Danielson as Diocesan Administrator, to manage day-to-day business of the Diocese until a new bishop was named.

Fr. Danielson will introduce Bishop Salvatore Cordileone at a news conference on Monday, March 23, at 10 a.m. at the Cathedral of Christ the Light. Media should enter through the main conference center entrance at 2121 Harrison Street, Oakland.

Bishop Salvatore Cordileone

Bishop Cordileone was born in 1956 in San Diego, California, where he and his family were members of Blessed Sacrament Parish. He entered the seminary in San Diego in 1975, received his B.A. in Philosophy from the University of San Diego in 1978 and went on for theology studies in Rome at the Pontifical North American College. He received the Bachelor's Degree in Sacred Theology from the Pontifical Gregorian University in 1981.

After being ordained a priest in 1982, Bishop Cordileone served as associate pastor in La Mesa, California before again returning to study in Rome. He received the Doctoral Degree in Canon Law from Gregorian University in 1989. Returning to San Diego he held various diocesan positions and from 1991 served as pastor at a parish in Calexico, California until 1995 when he returned to Rome.

For the next seven years Bishop Cordileone served as an assistant at the Supreme Tribunal of the Apostolic Signatura, the Vatican's highest judicial court. On July 5, 2002, Pope John Paul II appointed him as Auxiliary Bishop for the Diocese of San Diego and he was installed by Bishop Robert Brom the following month.

The Diocese of Oakland

As Bishop of Oakland, Bishop Cordileone will be the chief shepherd for over 550,000 Catholics who reside in Alameda and Contra Costa counties. The Diocese of Oakland was created in 1962 and is comprised of 84 parishes within Alameda and Contra Costa counties. The First Bishop of Oakland was the Most Reverend Floyd Begin who served from 1962 until his death in 1977. He was succeeded by Bishop John Cummins who retired in 2003 and was succeeded by Bishop Vigneron. Bishop Vigneron was appointed Archbishop of Detroit in January of this year and Fr. Daniel Danielson has been acting as Diocesan Administrator since that time.


More info on Bishop Cordileone can be found here, here, and here (Bishop Cordileone celebrated a Novus Ordo Mass in the newly inaugurated TAC Chapel ad orientem in Latin).

March 10, 2009

Sarah joins the no-appendix club

Well, that was an interesting weekend.

Short version: Sarah's home as of tonight, doing well, and less her appendix.

Long version: read on below...

Sarah woke up early Sunday with bad abdominal pain. It came and went, and a lot of the symptoms were consistent with bad gas (more on that later). She and I stayed home from Church, and over the course of the day, there seemed to be a few times when she got a little better, but by evening she clearly was taking a turn for the worse.

Ever since five years ago, when my bout with bad abdominal pain resolved itself via a midnight appendectomy, Lisa and I have been gun-shy when the kids have stomach pain. Thus, we were on the lookout for appendicitis. But as I say, her symptoms were ambiguous. In any event, we decided she needed to see a doctor, and since she only seems to get seriously ill on the weekend, this meant a trip to the emergency room.

I felt a little better when the doctors at the ER were perplexed by her symptoms. She did have bad gas, but she also had (sometimes) localized pain near her appendix. The doctor decided she needed a CT scan to tell one way or the other. By now, it was about 11:00 pm, and the results of the CT scan ended up confirming appendicitis (I'm guessing the gas was caused by her gut shutting down as a result of the appendicitis).

Since our local hospital has a policy of no pediatric surgery, they transfered Sarah to Children's Hospital in Oakland. Around 01:00 Monday morning, she and I piled into an ambulance (first ride in one for both of us), and off we went. By 02:00 we were in a room in the ER at Children's where we spent the next four hours waiting for a slot on the surgery schedule. By 06:00, I'd met with the surgical resident, the attending surgeon, and the anesthesiologist. Then I gave Sarah a hug while they gave her the shot in her IV to start knocking her out, and off she went.

Children's is a terrific hospital that does just about everything they can to make both the kids and their parents comfortable. They gave me a pager so I could leave the waiting area (as long as I stayed in the hospital), and told me they'd page me when she was out of surgery. Since by this time, I hadn't eaten or slept in 12 hours, and since there wasn't much I could do about sleeping, I decided to go to the cafeteria and get some breakfast.

No sooner had I paid for my food and sat down to eat it, then the pager went off (this must have been no later than 06:35). Sarah was in recovery. I wolfed down about half of my breakfast, and then headed up there. Shortly thereafter, I'd talked to the resident and attending surgeons, and the anesthesiologist, who all reported that things went very well (no perforation in the appendix, yay!). Then it was off to post-op to wait for Sarah to wake up. The nurses were very nice, and we chatted for awhile until Sarah started to come to.

Since the hospital was completely full (Really full. As in shuffling patients to try to free up beds), we stayed in post-op about an extra hour. Then it was off to her room, where we got settled in around 09:00 (roughly 14 hours since we'd first left home for the ER in Pleasanton) and waited for Lisa, Alex, and Helen to arrive.

To be continued...

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